Understanding the Offer to buy your home!

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What are the most common and overlooked red flags you should pay attention to when receiving an offer on your home?

As a real estate professional, it’s crucial to help your seller clients look beyond the price when evaluating an offer. Here are the most common and often overlooked red flags to watch out for when receiving a purchase offer on a home:


Most common and Overlooked Red Flags

Weak Proof of Funds or Pre-Approval

Red Flag: The buyer provides an outdated or vague pre-approval, or none at all.
Why it matters: It could mean the buyer isn’t truly qualified, or may have difficulty securing financing.
What to look for: A recent (within 30 days) pre-approval letter from a reputable lender with the buyer’s name and loan type specified.

Unusual or Excessive Contingencies

Red Flag: The buyer includes numerous or unusual contingencies (e.g. sale of another property, long feasibility studies, odd inspection clauses).
Why it matters: Too many contingencies give buyers outs and delay closing.
What to look for: Standard contingencies (inspection, appraisal, financing) with clearly defined timelines.

Low Earnest Money Deposit

Red Flag: The buyer offers very little earnest money (e.g. $500 on a $500K home).
Why it matters: Earnest money shows commitment; a low deposit may indicate a less serious buyer.
What to look for: A typical earnest money deposit is 1–3% of the purchase price depending on your market.

Closing Timeline That Doesn’t Align with Seller Needs

Red Flag: The buyer demands a very quick or very delayed close without explanation.
Why it matters: It could signal a buyer with inflexible needs or financing issues — or one trying to force a fast close before issues surface.
What to look for: A realistic closing date (usually 30–45 days) that fits your move-out timeline or allows for a leaseback if needed.

Seller Pays All the Costs

Red Flag: The offer asks the seller to cover all closing costs, title, and even additional warranties or repairs.
Why it matters: This can cut significantly into net proceeds and signal a buyer with limited cash reserves.
What to look for: A balanced offer where the buyer covers at least their share of customary costs.

Requesting the Property “As-Is” but Still Retaining Inspection Rights

Red Flag: The buyer says they’re buying “as-is” but reserves the right to negotiate repairs after inspection.
Why it matters: This can lead to bait-and-switch renegotiations.
What to look for: Either a truly as-is deal with a short inspection window or a clear understanding of what “as-is” means in writing.

Inexperienced or Non-Responsive Buyer Agent

Red Flag: The buyer’s agent is hard to reach, disorganized, or doesn’t communicate clearly.
Why it matters: A disorganized agent can derail timelines or overlook important deadlines, leading to a failed deal.
What to look for: A cooperative, professional buyer’s agent who understands the process and keeps the deal moving.

Red Flag: If you’ve heard through other agents that the buyer has backed out of multiple deals or is difficult during inspections or appraisals.
Why it matters: Past behavior is often a good predictor of future drama.
What to look for: A buyer with a clean offer history and solid agent representation.

Who pays for what during a Texas real estate purchase transaction? (Common practice)


In a Texas residential real estate transaction, the allocation of costs between the buyer and seller is often guided by local customs but can be negotiated. Below is a breakdown of who typically pays for what, but bear in mind that depending on the market conditions (seller’s market vs buyer’s market), any of these items can be negotiated.

What does a Great Offer look like from the view of the seller?

When you’re reviewing offers with your seller using the TREC 1-4 Family Residential Resale Contract, a “great offer” goes well beyond price alone. Here’s how a top-notch real estate agent would break it down section by section to highlight what makes an offer strong, clean, and likely to close:

Paragraph 3- Sales Price

Solid Offer: Full-price or above asking, or close enough with other strong terms.
Cash offer or strong financing with substantial down payment (e.g., 20%+) makes it more appealing and less risky.

Paragraph 5 – Earnest Money & Option Fee

Earnest Money: 1–3% of the purchase price — shows commitment.
Option Fee: A fair, non-refundable option fee (e.g., $200–$500 for a 5–7 day option period) indicates seriousness without dragging inspection timelines.

Paragraph 6 – Title Policy & Survey

Title Policy (6.A): Buyer agrees seller will pay for the owner’s title policy (customary in Texas).
Survey (6.C): Buyer accepts existing survey (if available), or agrees to pay for a new one if it’s not.

Paragraph 7 – Property Condition

As-Is Sale (7.D): Buyer accepts the property “as-is” and isn’t demanding upfront repairs.
Inspection Period: Short and clear (within the option period). Fewer renegotiation risks.

Paragraph 9 – Closing Date

A reasonable and realistic closing date (typically 30–45 days out).
Buyer expresses flexibility on a leaseback or seller’s preferred move-out date, if needed.

Paragraph 12 – Settlement Expenses

No or low seller-paid closing costs. The best offers won’t ask you to cover extensive buyer fees.
If seller assistance is requested, it’s reasonable (e.g., “up to $2,000” vs. “up to 6%”).

Paragraph 21 – Notices

Buyer and agent info is complete and accurate — a sign of professionalism and communication.

Paragraph 23 – Termination Option

A short option period (5–7 days) with a healthy fee shows the buyer isn’t planning to back out without cause

Other Important Indicators:

Pre-approval letter (or proof of funds for cash offers) included with the offer.
Buyer is working with a well-known, responsive lender and a professional agent.
Offer is submitted clean, complete, and on-time.

Bonus: Custom Terms that Help Sellers

Buyer offers a leaseback post-closing at no cost to give seller time to relocate.
Buyer agrees to waive appraisal contingency (if value supports it).
Buyer is flexible on repairs or offers to take the property in current condition.

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